{"id":751,"date":"2013-07-15T15:25:42","date_gmt":"2013-07-15T19:25:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stephaniesilberwordsworks.com\/?p=751"},"modified":"2013-07-16T12:17:10","modified_gmt":"2013-07-16T16:17:10","slug":"you-gotta-know-when-to-fold-em","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/you-gotta-know-when-to-fold-em\/","title":{"rendered":"YOU GOTTA KNOW WHEN TO FOLD &#8216;EM"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you really just feel like giving up.\u00a0 It&#8217;s worse than writer&#8217;s block, worse than being distracted by the vicissitudes of life and falling into a rut of not writing every day.\u00a0 It&#8217;s like an undertow you cannot escape, a moment when you literally feel you are dead in the water.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been feeling that way lately, despite my blooming midsummer garden and my love for this season.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a dichotomy that threatens to shut me down.\u00a0 You think, <em>why bother?\u00a0 It&#8217;s just too hard.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t keep putting myself through this.\u00a0 <\/em>And so on and on, wah, wah, kick, scream, and avoid the writing in favor of yard work, which actually makes me feel content.\u00a0 <em>(But ah, Reader, there is nothing, but nothing, that can compare to the feeling of flying that you experience when the work of writing is going well.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/TDSOT-convent-next-door.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-759\" alt=\"TDSOT convent next door\" src=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/TDSOT-convent-next-door-225x168.jpg\" width=\"225\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/TDSOT-convent-next-door-225x168.jpg 225w, https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/TDSOT-convent-next-door.jpg 280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>A friend told me recently that she&#8217;d seen a trailer for some upcoming horror flick she could not remember the name of, something about the supernatural that put her in mind of my very own novel, THE DARK SIDE OF TIME.\u00a0 I was flattered.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I happened upon an article in the NY Daily News by Ethan Sacks, in which he discusses the falling out of favor of slasher films and torture porn.\u00a0 He points to a new preference for a more subtle serving of dread, along the lines of ROSEMARY&#8217;S BABY and THE EXORCIST.\u00a0 And he leads with the buzz around a haunted house thriller opening this Friday, <a title=\"Conjuring trailer\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=k10ETZ41q5o\">THE CONJURING<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Natch, I had to have a peek at the trailer.\u00a0 I knew immediately that it was the trailer my friend had seen, because not only is it a classic haunted house story like THE DARK SIDE OF TIME, but for God&#8217;s sake it looks like they shot it in my own damn basement!<a href=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-009.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-756\" alt=\"basement 009\" src=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-009-500x375.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-009-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-009-225x168.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I had Vic take a look at it.\u00a0 He laughed because it so does look like our own damn basement, even to the prop-esque old chair tucked under the stairs.\u00a0 Then he refused to watch any more because he may want to see the movie.\u00a0 I find it ironic that I myself do not; it would scare me too much.<\/p>\n<p>I was scaring myself for a year as I wrote TDSOT.\u00a0 That didn&#8217;t bother me.\u00a0 In fact, it delighted me, though I jumped at the slightest sound while I loaded a wash.\u00a0 In the basement.\u00a0 Near the crawl space.\u00a0 <em>(No rush like that one, when the characters come to life off the page and scare the shit out of you.)<a href=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-008.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-757\" alt=\"basement 008\" src=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-008-225x168.jpg\" width=\"225\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-008-225x168.jpg 225w, https:\/\/hometeamproductions.tv\/wordsworks\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/basement-008-500x375.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>But I want to scare other people as well.\u00a0 Is that too much to ask?<\/p>\n<p>I do take some comfort in the words of the accomplished non-fiction writer, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Alec_Wilkinson\">Alec Wilkinson<\/a>, who gave us such an insightful interview for our doc, RANDOM LUNACY.\u00a0 I told him that my novel was literary fiction, a mystery, a ghost story and a brooding look at our troubled world.\u00a0 I was inspired, I told him, by the work of the late great Shirley Jackson (THE HAUNTING OF HILL HOUSE and much, much more).\u00a0 &#8220;Jackson is very fine,&#8221; Alec said.\u00a0 &#8220;And there will always be a market for your genre.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Vic implied the same.\u00a0 &#8220;Let&#8217;s see if THE CONJURING makes any money.\u00a0 Because that&#8217;s the only factor that counts.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll buy that.\u00a0 Guess I won&#8217;t fold &#8217;em quite 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